I look at stocky guys and I feel this almost erotic kind of jealousy because I'd like to have a body like theirs, but I have a crush on this girl in my art class. does this mean I'm bisexual? I find bigger guys more attractive, but I'd still very much like to marry a wife, have kids, and start a family together.
Human Sexuality is not so black and white! There is much more than just gay/straight/bi. It’s possible to be physically attracted to men, but emotionally attracted to women. It’s also possible to be gay and still want a nuclear family.
I sort of have a chart for this:
This radar chart graphs Human Sexuality of Gay (red) and Straight (blue) men across the five attributes that Dr Kinsey attributes to sexuality.
The Straight Male in my example is 100% Biologically Male (born as a male with full male parts), identifies as a male (uses the mens bathroom, etc), expresses himself as a male (shops in Mens clothing stores, etc), is 100% attracted to the opposite sex, and affiliates with other men of the same identity.
The Gay Male in my example is just like his Straight counterpart, except he expresses himself a little less Masculinely, and is only attracted to the same sex.
Kinsey’s sexuality matrix allows for many degrees of expression across all these attributes. You can be a Biological Male that Identifies as Female but Expresses as Androgynous, yet is Attracted to Men and Women equally, and affiliates with nobody.
Why can’t you have a Straight Family while only being sexually attracted to Gay Men? Plenty of Republicans do this already.