Do you tend to go for/ attracted to guys with similar build to you, or is it mix and match?
Here are some of the bodies I’ve been in a relationship with:
As you can see, I’ve been with all kinds of bodies. I’m physically attracted to a certain kind of guy, but have never limited myself to that as I’m most attracted to innocence. If you look closely, you’ll see none of these bodies are similar to my look. (Or at least, not how I think I look).
Message from Marcus B:
hi, I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and completely smitten, not sure whether i prefer the hunky pups or the amazing food you guys eat! Anyway, I was reading your post on how to handle pups that were larger than you
and wondered whether you had any other tips, I’m a totally submissive cub but the only problem I have is being 6’2 and built really naturally big, as in shoulders that fill a doorway and this really intimidates a lot of doms, do you have any suggestions for anything that I could do or ways a top could handle me better? Id really appreciate it and keep up the awesome work with this blog!
My last post was all about how a Dom can get a bigger partner to submit, but it required previous interaction and trust. Let’s look at it from the big sub’s perspective:
How can a bigger sub attract the attention of a Dom?
Even after dominating my alpha pup, he will stand up to his full 6’2” height and I can’t help but feel intimidated. The issue is social programming: bigger guys are seen as more Dominant because of their relative size difference with everyone shorter.
An experienced Dom can pick up on your submissive cues regardless of size or other physical markers of dominance. But, you can help make this easier by expressing your submissive side more obviously:
Dress the part
I’m not saying you should go out dressed like a sexy kitten maid, but there are accessories that can help indicate your submissive role. Harnesses, collars (no lock), bondage inspired jewelry, sometimes even the right hankey can flag your desired role.
These suggestions won’t work for everyone. Ultimately, you should wear something that resonates with you. If you feel sexy in a jockstrap, wear it.
Know your submissive cues
Submissive cues aren’t universal, but there are certain behaviours that signal to me someone is more submissively inclined. Avoiding eye contact, keeping head down, asking for permission, being overly courteous, polite, respectful, and addressing me as “Sir” are hard to miss signs.
Reflect on your own submissive dialog and speak that…if you feel being submissive means carrying someone’s bag or bringing them a drink, do that. It’ll help attract a Dom who is compatible with your needs.
HELP!! Hey Dylan I need your help, i really really REALLY want to buy a camera but I don't want to spend so much. Do you know of a good affordable camera that takes good pictures but won't make my bank account die of starvation?
Oh boy, something I’m good at: buying cameras.
I’m a firm believer that the best camera is the one you have on you, so my gear usually favours portability over performance.
Noodles and Beef’s camera guide
My first camera was a Panasonic Lumix DMC-TZ5. Bought it from Costco at the recommendation of wooferstl when I was starting my 365 project. Its a great introductory camera with excellent auto controls and a small, portable size that makes shooting easy.
See my Lumix photos here or Buy it here.
My first DSLR (bigger sensor, better photos, more manual control) camera was a Olympus E-PL1. It was horrible. I spent a lot of time after returning it researching DSLR cameras before settling on the SONY NEX-5. Its been my camera of choice for the last four years. The photo quality is amazing and being able to edit RAW photos really expanded my hobby.
See my NEX-5 photos here or Buy it here ~$400 (used for $200).
$$$MONEY IS NO OBJECT
After years of slowly trading up, I’ve finally got myself a full frame camera, the SONY A7R. I’ve only had mine for a couple days, but am loving using such an advanced camera.
See my A7R photos here or buy it here ~$2,200
@stupidthick sent me a very sweet message about my proposal to big pup, and wants to know where I get the need to be so thoughtful.
Thank you for the nice message! I’m really glad you like my blog and the affectionate gestures I perform for my pups.
Why am I so thoughtful?
Thoughtfulness is the appropriate expression of all five forms of affection:
- Physical affection (touching, kissing, sex, etc…)
- Intimacy (one-on-one time involving undivided attention)
- Gifts (flowers, tokens of affection, food, etc…)
- Service (cleaning, cooking, chores, etc…)
- Affirmation (kind, affectionate, appreciative statements that recognize the importance of the person receiving them)
Everyone expresses and receives love differently. I used to believe physical affection was the only way to express love and had a very difficult time accepting love in other forms. It has taken some time to train myself to accept these other kinds of affection, but in doing so I’ve learned how to give affection to people who can’t receive physical gestures.
While traveling Asia, I had scheduled deliveries of flowers, food, and heartfelt letters to remind my pups how special and important they are to me while I’m gone.
Why is it so hard to tell people you love them? I hate the taboo that prevents us from being affectionate.
Perhaps thats why I’m so “thoughtful.” I just love to show love. I get incredible satisfaction from giving it.
Is your life as perfect as you make it out to be?
Its all in the eyes of the beholder, anon. I think my life is pretty awesome, but its not without negative parts:
Again, its all in the eyes of the beholder. I’m aware of the things in my life that aren’t “perfect” and am actively working to make them better so I can be a better person.
But what is “perfect” without some struggle? I couldn’t appreciate the good parts of my life if it weren’t for the bad ones.
Everyone meet Magnus, my brand new 2014 Mini Countryman.
I don’t do these memes, sorry @cornfedmusclepup, but after completing my Taipei 101 hotel backside shot, I realized I’ve got seven such portraits in this unofficial project. I shall name the project Hotel Butts.
Presenting: the hotel backside project, where I take photos of my butt in the place I’m staying. Left to right, top to bottom, Wynn Las Vegas, a train car to Portland, Singapore hotel, a penthouse in Acapulco, a boutique hotel in Playa del Carmen, and a condo in West Hollywood.
How we raised the money: I had a few extra calendars left over and auctioned them off along with a life size noodlesandbeef dakimakura.
I was not convinced it would be a successful fund raiser…I was very surprised with the turn out. I guess I really do have a lot of readers in Asia! Thank you, everyone who came. Sorry I’m so awkward.
Photo from the noodlesandbeef charity party. I’m in the middle, orange pants.
We raised $170,000NT for local AIDS charity 愛滋權促會. Awesome :D
Read the official post here on Facebook
Master sent us a chef prepared dinner and flowers to remind us how much he loves us, and that he thinks of us all the time even while he’s away. Love you sooooo much, Master! Come home soon, we miss you!
I love my pups! I’m sending daily tokens of affection during my trip, from small reminders of my love to catered meals keeping them on track with their diet. Anything I can to show them how special they are when I can’t do it in person.
Sigh, I miss you both so much…can’t wait to come home.
Friday, July 11th: Chuck pup earned my training collar. Look at that smile :D
This is an experiment. We’re going to flesh out a contract to try and address some short and long term goals…starting with having an awesome time in ptown!
Why do you eat so much poutine?
I’ll tell you why I eat so much damn poutine.
Look at that. LOOK AT IT. Pulled pork over fries with cheese curds. Its like staring into the FACE OF GOD and he tells you YOU ARE WORTHY OF EATING ME.
Oh my god, is that…? YES IT IS: Japanese curry chicken over yukon gold fries!!! Salty, Spicy, Sweet, Umami…what is this?! A FIFTH FLAVOUR?!?! The best elements of every flavour combine to unlock the ULTIMATE FORM OF TASTE INCARNATE: poutine.
Have you ever eaten something so incredible you cried? Meet duck confit poutine: self-actualization as food. You are special, you are loved, you are worthy, you are wanted…and poutine has brought you there.
Behold: classic poutine. Deceivingly simple. You’d never know a life changing experience was just a bite away.
If you could capture the human condition—love, loss, joy, sadness, ecstasy, pokemon—into food, you would have a recipe for classic poutine.
What I’m saying is: you have not lived until you’ve poutine.
Speaking of living in a bara comic, I imagine this is what it would look like.
brandedbulltank just gave me this incredible birthday gift: he commissioned my favourite artist, hawtcherry, to draw the wonderful pups of my life and myself (as beefy sexy furries) all cuddled up together. There’s lil pup on the left as a shiba inu, Chuck pup top right as a St Bernard, big pup as a boar, tank at my feet as a big red-headed bull, and myself as a bull in the middle of the pile.
I’m speechless, its incredible. One of my favourite pieces by hawtcherry…he’s incredibly talented and I can recognize everyone in this pic even as hyper-sexualized anthropomorphized versions of themselves. I love it.