I see guys on campus with the lock and chain necklace and I want to go up to them and tell them how hot I think it is. What should I say? Is there some secret Dom/Sub language or handshake? I think what makes it weird is that I'm a tall lanky nerd and not a beefcake....
I really don’t know much about this sort of thing.
BUT, when I want to break the ice with someone wearing a lock, I just ask “who has the key?” You will get one of these responses:
- "I have the key"
- "My boyfriend has it"
- "My boyfriend lost it, I’ve had this on since Folsom"
- "My ex has it, we broke up during Folsom"
- "My Sir/Master has the key"
Not all leather folk can be identified using locks around their necks. Old Guard leather folk use the antiquated hanky code
, while new generation leather folk wear leather sashes they earned pagenting the leather circuit: