Alpha is helping train lilpup in the art of being a power bottom.
They sent me this photo from Mr S where they’re shopping for toys…oh, pups!
Exploring San Diego with big pup. There are a lot of bars here. Hmm.
Post Folsom recovery with big pup. Spent most of the day lounging at our hotel’s rooftop pool.
Still missing the boys, the leather, the parties…but pools make it better.
If given the chance to magically change your sexual orientation, would you want to be straight?
Be straight? Pffft. No way!
I’m 27-years into my gay life and am finally comfortable/adjusted with things. I can’t imagine flipping the sexual orientation switch one night and having to learn the elaborate social dance of being straight.
However…I would consider being straight if I could start from birth in an alternate reality where I get to live all my gay life events as a straight man…including being in a D/s relationship with my pups. Or, in straight world, my kittens:
Meet gender-swap big pup: Danielle. Think a busty ESL latina, like Sofía Vergara in Modern Family, only she runs restaurants.
Then there’s lil pup: Chandelier. Imagine Emma Roberts playing a hyper-affectionate, clumsy, know-it-all.
And alpha (mister editor in chief) is actually the gender-swap version of Miranda Priestly.
Yeah, I think I could be happy with that life.
Purified water, or natural spring water?
Spring water. Purified water is bad for you.
I know you didn’t ask, but my favourite water is San Francisco tap water.
Its amazing. Has this real watery kick that normal water lacks.
Sent chef prepared multi course menu to lil pup and alpha since I can’t be home this weekend. Missing them already—
What began as a response to one of fuzzbutt’s weekly blog posts is finished below:
Contrary to popular portrayal of “Masters” and their “slaves” (mostly in porn), where Masters are all swaggering egomaniacs bent on crushing their pitiful slaves into a humiliating and degrading submission for a brief time before fucking their brains out, most Masters of my acquaintance are fairly humble people, and their ego is FAR removed from their ownership of slaves. Good Masters whom I know and respect take their responsibility for their slaves so seriously, view the gift of their total surrender and trust as so precious and awe-inspiring that they are humbled to their core by it, and respond accordingly, taking up and shouldering that responsibility with a kind of egoless symbiotic purity of need meeting need. A good and well-balanced Master/slave relationship is a beautiful thing to watch and see in motion.
It is incredibly humbling, especially when such exceptional men like big pup, lil pup, or alpha choose to submit. I’m compelled to be more than I am so that I don’t squander or waste this wonderful gift.
Pup is SO done with today.
Shower, coffee, and a toke…
I just friggin’ love the collar is still on post Folsom <3
Visiting the RufSkin headquarters in San Diego. They make all their prototypes here, very exciting stuff.
Sadly, I still can’t fit in their denim swim wear.
Big pup surprised me with a weekend trip to San Diego. Spending the afternoon at our hotel rooftop pool. Gorgeous up here. Love you pup, hang you!
So the pictures I posted of the Real Bad party didn’t really convey just how massive this party was. These are from the official Real Bad FB page. This is just one of several dance floors.
Just one dance floor of five.
Think we spent most our time in the red room upstairs.
Do you tend to go for/ attracted to guys with similar build to you, or is it mix and match?
Here are some of the bodies I’ve been in a relationship with:
As you can see, I’ve been with all kinds of bodies. I’m physically attracted to a certain kind of guy, but have never limited myself to that as I’m most attracted to innocence. If you look closely, you’ll see none of these bodies are similar to my look. (Or at least, not how I think I look).
Oh look, militarymutt came over for dinner. I’m making him blush talking about D/s stuff.