Just wanted to know how many extra calendars you think you'll have left after your "campaign" ends and what are you going to do with them? (Not that I need one - I already have 2).
I was originally mailing the calendars in flexible poly bag mailers. While I saved money on shipping supplies, some orders (especially international orders) arrived creased or moisture seeped through the bag and caused pages to fuse together.
This is unacceptable.
I emailed everyone letting them know I would replace their calendar for free with my leftover copies if their’s arrived damaged. I’ve got about a dozen replacements waiting to go out.
There are also a couple people who didn’t receive their order. I’m obligated to resend these orders if USPS hasn’t updated tracking information. This is rare.
Four copies of the calendar were given away in my contest. There were, like, six entries.
Twelve copies are going to be gifts to friends, a donation will be made in their honour to the AIDS Emergency Fund. At this point I’m just trying to get rid of the additional copies because I have so many left over.
Sometime in January I will take the remaining copies and destroy them. Probably via bon fire.
For all the pups, subs, and others who are interested (myself included).... how does one become a good pup or sub? (in this case, without a dom)
How do you become a good sub?
It’s easy if you have a Dom in your life. They’ll give you rules that provide structure and order for your life and rewards to reinforce good behavior. But, “good behavior”is relative; I like smooth butts, other Doms like them furry. You can’t prepare yourself for someone you haven’t even met yet.
You can prepare yourself by becoming the best person you can be.
Take a moment to visualize the perfect version of yourself. How do you look? Are you successful? Have you finished college? Do you live with your parents still? How do you act? Etc… write it down, make a mood board, whatever. This is your goal: to become the best version of yourself possible.
Every day you will work towards this perfect you. Every day you will be that much closer to catching the attention of your future boyfriend/Dom/Master/Sir/whatever. When you finally meet that special person you will be (at that moment) the best you can be.
A relationship is a huge investment of time, love, and energy. Make yourself worth it, and never settle for someone who doesn’t try as hard.
Hey, Sir! I was wondering if I could ask you, what are some qualities to look for in a good Dom? I guess the way to ask you would be, what qualities do you strive towards in your Dom relationship with your pup?
I wasn’t really looking for anything when I met my Dom. I didn’t even know I had a submissive side. It happened organically as our relationship progressed.
He was handsome as he was commanding…he had a very dominant presence without even trying, and was the most developed person I had ever met. He was successful, worldly, romantic, a total gentleman. It didn’t take long for me to admire him.
I can’t be submissive towards someone unless I admire them. So, if I were you, thats what I’d look for.
If you’re giving up control to a Dom to shape and guide you on your journey, you need someone you can count on. Admiration is a good turing test for this. They need to be at least good enough of a human that you admire them.
As a Dom, I am constantly trying to better myself for my pup. He looks up to me, admires me, and puts me on a pedestal. He’s aware of my flaws, but doesn’t see them as such. Nevertheless, I want to be an example for him to continuously improve himself. Just as I set goals with my pup, I set goals for myself.
In exchange, I would like to gain the super power of reality manipulation (eg, Scarlet Witch). Or if I’m only allowed to take a medium-level super power, I’d like to be a shapeshifter so I can see what I look like blond.
I've read about your issues with your friends and loneliness. After reading comments on your posts, it seems many people share your experiences, me included. I have friends, family and a long-term partner, but the loneliness sneaks up on me. What do you do to curb these feelings? I can guess it might be the gym or work maybe, but I'm wondering. I read your posts and look forward to the next new one, no matter the topic. For me, during my lonesome occasions, you feel like a friend. Thanks!
I come from a divorced family. My mom married four times, I’ve had three fathers leave, one step dad cut me out for being gay, my mom kicked me out for similar reasons.
I was an outcast in school and had no strong friendships. The friends I did have never invited me to their sleepovers or friend outings. My only childhood and teen friendships were online.
My attempts at making friends as a young gay adult were very difficult. Intercourse is the social ice breaker in San Francisco and I was too young, small, prudish, and “not bear enough” for anyone.
It’s no surprise I’m insecure about friendship; most of my platonic and family relationships have ended with abandonment.
I don’t know how to deal with these insecurities. I’ve never had such close, real friends before, I lack that fundamental social experience completely. So when I get insecure I kinda freak out and become worried I’ve overvalued out friendship or that I’m worthless, small, etc.
I wish I knew how to deal with these feelings. But, until then, I’m so grateful that my friends are patient with me. These are true friends.
Any suggestions would be great. Right now when I feel lonely or that my friends haven’t talked to me in a week I get sentimental looking at old photos. That kinda makes things worse because it makes me think I offended or pushed my friend away. Etc.
Hey, an anon here just submitting some fantasies that I have while masturbating over your pics. I often fantasise of being your complete tool, doing anything for the taste of your hard cock - ANYTHING. I have always wanted to kiss every part of your body, worshipping your hot body. When masturbating I dream of choking on your cock, taking the pain for master's pleasure, and giving anything I can to make master happy, as I am a worthless sub. I want to be on my knees at your mercy, obeying your
(continued) obeying your orders, and your cock is my reward. I get rock hard just thinking about being in your dominant presence, the thought of being allowed to be pounded by your cock makes me so horny that I cum all over myself every time. I would do anything to be your pup.
About five minutes after my family left Thanksgiving dinner, we did this exact thing. He choked on my meat, I stuffed his hole, there was some gravy involved. Pup is so funny, he complains that his jaw hurts afterwards.
What's the best way to send a message to you? I've written a note I'd like to send, but would rather it not be public. It's just an appreciation and "thanks" to you. I thought maybe Facebook, but I'm not sure if those messages are public. Also tried this blog, but the question section limited how much I could type (what I've written is about a page or so). Finally, I tried to logon to the site, but kept getting error messages (poop!). So, I'm sending this via anonymous - thanks! SteveK
If it didn’t fit in the ask box, you can always try the submit link, but email is probably best in this situation.
My email is: ekigyuu at gmail dot com
Just replace at with @ and dot with an actual “.” dot or it won’t send.
If you don’t want it published, just let me know in the message. I respect requests not to publish things sent to me. Unless that person is being very rude, then I humiliate them publicly on my blog.