It’s midnight, so we’re reviewing possible looks for Folsom. Of course, Phil looks amazing in everything…swoon!
Can’t see it so well, but that’s a hand print on my ass.
Initial walk for leather/feathers runway show.
innerbear is here! Our first Folsom guest!
[When Vonnegut tells his wife he’s going out to buy an envelope] Oh, she says, well, you’re not a poor man. You know, why don’t you go online and buy a hundred envelopes and put them in the closet? And so I pretend not to hear her. And go out to get an envelope because I’m going to have a hell of a good time in the process of buying one envelope. I meet a lot of people. And, see some great looking babes. And a fire engine goes by. And I give them the thumbs up. And, and ask a woman what kind of dog that is. And, and I don’t know. The moral of the story is, is we’re here on Earth to fart around. And, of course, the computers will do us out of that. And, what the computer people don’t realize, or they don’t care, is we’re dancing animals. You know, we love to move around. And, we’re not supposed to dance at all anymore.
Coach is getting into the Folsom spirit.
When you and your pups have sex, how does it go? Meaning is it everyone or do you at with them individually. I don't want to piss you off, I'm just curious
Totally valid question as the mechanics of group sex are very complicated, thank you for asking.
Here are my favourite positions with names I’ve made up:
A pup on each nipple and one on my cock. Easy, hands free, very enjoyable. (pictured here)
- THE LINE UP
Each pup presents their rump and I just go down one at a time till they’re each filled up. (pictured here)
Lil pup, Alpha, and I go for a hike while big pup plays video games at home. (pictured here)
Edit: leather smithing is an expensive hobby.
Message from Marcus B:
hi, I discovered your blog a few weeks ago and completely smitten, not sure whether i prefer the hunky pups or the amazing food you guys eat! Anyway, I was reading your post on how to handle pups that were larger than you
and wondered whether you had any other tips, I’m a totally submissive cub but the only problem I have is being 6’2 and built really naturally big, as in shoulders that fill a doorway and this really intimidates a lot of doms, do you have any suggestions for anything that I could do or ways a top could handle me better? Id really appreciate it and keep up the awesome work with this blog!
My last post was all about how a Dom can get a bigger partner to submit, but it required previous interaction and trust. Let’s look at it from the big sub’s perspective:
How can a bigger sub attract the attention of a Dom?
Even after dominating my alpha pup, he will stand up to his full 6’2” height and I can’t help but feel intimidated. The issue is social programming: bigger guys are seen as more Dominant because of their relative size difference with everyone shorter.
An experienced Dom can pick up on your submissive cues regardless of size or other physical markers of dominance. But, you can help make this easier by expressing your submissive side more obviously:
Dress the part
I’m not saying you should go out dressed like a sexy kitten maid, but there are accessories that can help indicate your submissive role. Harnesses, collars (no lock), bondage inspired jewelry, sometimes even the right hankey can flag your desired role.
These suggestions won’t work for everyone. Ultimately, you should wear something that resonates with you. If you feel sexy in a jockstrap, wear it.
Know your submissive cues
Submissive cues aren’t universal, but there are certain behaviours that signal to me someone is more submissively inclined. Avoiding eye contact, keeping head down, asking for permission, being overly courteous, polite, respectful, and addressing me as “Sir” are hard to miss signs.
Reflect on your own submissive dialog and speak that…if you feel being submissive means carrying someone’s bag or bringing them a drink, do that. It’ll help attract a Dom who is compatible with your needs.
Testing backlit flash…look at the dust get caught in the light. Such detail…I’m starting to love flash photography.
Experimenting with off-camera flash, bounced off opposite wall.
My new camera has a standard hotshoe, so I can finally start experimenting with off-camera flash. Rented a pocket wizard and a Canon 600EX-RT Speedlite and spent the evening learning manual flash control. Very exciting stuff :D
Slight learning curve with off-camera flash, but the colours are gorgeous. Very happy with my first time results.