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My flag daddy found me.
He came into my life when I needed him and left before I could get his number.
The flagging community is annoyingly low-tech. There is frustratingly little information online about this world and everything I know was learned through word-of-mouth.
However, there are a few active Facebook Groups you should follow:
Flagging in the Park SF: this is the big flagging group and series of parties for San Francisco. Xavier chairs the tea dances and also co-teaches flagging classes every Wednesday from 8:30 to 9:30pm at Fitness SF SoMa.
SoCal Flaggers: seems like a very active flagger group for folks in SoCal. Seems there are also a few folks who make and sell flags for the upcoming Pride flagging events…hmmm.
Flaggers USA: a little less active than the two Cali groups, but there are posts about flagging dances and events around America, some dances in NYC’s central park, Chicago, FTL…
Rumors I’m not fond of:
“He’s a Latino masseuse who lives in Texas.”
There is a guy in Texas who frequently uses my photos to advertise his services… I’ve had folks message me about massages. It’s annoying.
“He doesn’t let his partner have friends.”
This one is painfully ironic, because my last two relationships were with guys who didn’t want me to have friends, and as a result I vowed to never do that to someone I loved. Instead, I have always pushed pup to connect with his family and pursue friendships outside our relationship. Even if it means he sees the Star Trek movie without me.
“He’s a big, conceited, jerk.”
This is ridiculous, I’m not big at all! Nevertheless, I realize that my overzealous attempts at seeking validation have labeled me as a narcissistic exhibitionist…but, that couldn’t be further from the truth! I’m the most insecure person you’ll ever meet and a fierce friend when given the opportunity. Can we get coffee please?
“He has a huge dick but doesn’t know how to use it.”
Considering how few sexual partners I’ve had, I don’t know how this rumor started. The only feedback pup gives me in my post-coitus survey is that I should use something more lubricating than spit. Hmm.
Oh, inner-Phil-bear-beef. You fabulous, wonderful, amazing, man person, you!
I just got your box of birthday goodies, and now my desk is decorated with rainbow confetti and Slick It Up post cards.
Ahhhhhhh!!! Thank you so much! We have to wear our MEAT tanks and DIESEL sunglasses together on some future adventure!
Thank you thank you thank you!
*hyperventilating*
All my coworkers have now seen my blog
And at first I was embarrassed, but apparently they had already known about it for a while and nothing changed. Nice.
Master cooked lobster last night , it was delicious, I ate three tails!
Finished flambe lobster.
Made flambe lobster tails last night.
There isn’t a manlier cooking technique than flambe. Especially when you cook naked.
Once cooked, I rendered bacon and ghee in the pan with minced shallots and garlic. This was the dipping sauce.
Served over fava bean faux-risotto and caramelized brussel sprouts.
A bit too rich for me, but pup loves that kind of cooking.
Woof!
This weekend’s “Military” drag
Also, accidental Dylan pose
Best accidental Dylan Pose…swoon!
- SONY NEX-5R
- α f/4
- ε 1/60th
- ƒ 21mm
I’m starting to think he likes being flogged to the point where its no longer a detriment to poor behavior.
- SONY NEX-5R
- α f/6.3
- ε 1/3200th
- ƒ 136mm
A sea of colourful flags. Siiiigggghhh…soon as we left the flagging party I couldn’t wait for the next one to begin. The music is incredible, everyone is so friendly, and flagging is an awesome workout.
I lost some of my stamina gaining weight last year, it was so humbling having to take breaks between songs because I lost my breath.
Flagging is an awesome upper body workout.
I’m going to pretend it’s what gave pup his 21” arms.
Andrew, serving effortless poi flagging with his bear poi flags. He makes it look so easy! Argh!
About an hour into flagging the sun burned through the fog and it went from a cool, overcast tea, to a sweltering summer dance.
Shirts came off, sunglasses went on.
Andrew, working his poi bear pride flags.
They turned out amazing, and were the inspiration for my poi leather pride flags.
This fella asked to play with my new poi flags…he was amazing, incredible moves.
Playing with the “Fire” Flags I made a couple weekends ago. Ahhhh, they are just as gorgeous in sunlight as they are under black light.
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